Being alone is not the same as being lonely
Unlike being alone, which is a choice we make and a form of solitude that is often viewed positively, loneliness isn't something we actively seek. Instead, various factors can lead to us gradually feeling lonely, especially when we become senior citizens. These include
- our social network becoming smaller when we retire from work,
- declining physical health,
- and even the death of our partner.
All of which can eventually leave us with little or no contact with society. It's not unusual for increasing loneliness to be accompanied by health problems. According to Pro Senectute, older people who feel lonely not only have a lower life expectancy, they are also more likely to suffer from high blood pressure or depression. What's more, they are also more likely to develop Alzheimer's.