Emotional eating and how nutrition can help with stress
Emotional eating is common. Under stress, many people reach automatically for chocolate, crisps or snacks – while others completely lose their appetite. However, when understood correctly, nutrition can play a key role in coping better with stress.
Answers to FAQs on emotional eating
Eating driven by feelings rather than hunger, e.g. stress, frustration or boredom. Cravings strike suddenly, often for sweet, fatty or salty foods. Eating is often unconscious, leaving guilt afterwards.
Physical hunger develops gradually, signalled by stomach rumbling, and can be satisfied with various foods.
Emotional hunger arises suddenly, feels urgent and is often a reaction to stress, frustration, or loneliness. In this case, eating is used to soothe feelings or as a distraction, rather than to satiate.
- Appears suddenly and intensely
- You crave specific "comfort foods" like sweets or salty snacks
- No physical hunger cues
- Triggered by emotions rather than actual need
- Can sometimes be eased by distraction
A balanced diet rich in B vitamins (especially B1, B6, B12), magnesium, omega-3 fatty acids, and complex carbohydrates supports the nervous system and improves stress management.
Being mindful of yourself and your eating habits helps you recognise the real reasons behind your behaviour: Am I eating from real hunger or from emotions like stress, frustration or boredom? Conscious observation will help you identify and break emotional patterns at an early stage.
Why do we eat under stress?
In stressful moments, the body seeks quick ways to cope – both physically and emotionally. Foods like chocolate, crisps and fast food act as an easy outlet: They're convenient, strong in flavour and provide short-term relief.
How emotional eating affects the body
The reason lies in the brain. Sweet or fatty foods trigger the brain's reward system, releasing dopamine, a chemical linked to motivation, drive and a feeling of reward. For a moment, it feels comforting. Physiologically, the following happens: Carbohydrate-rich foods raise insulin, which lowers cortisol (a stress hormone) and activates the parasympathetic nervous system, the part of the nervous system responsible for rest, digestion and recovery.
Short-term relief, long-term problem
The problem is that the underlying cause for the stress remains. Short-term comfort can create a learned pattern in the brain: "Eating calms me." This is how emotional eating develops – not from genuine hunger, but as a learned response to inner tension. But it's not just our behaviour that changes; our bodies also react to stress eating. The result is a biochemical roller coaster that also has a long-term effect on the body.
From energy spike to crash: what happens in the body
- Blood sugar rises quickly = short energy boost
- Insulin is released = blood sugar drops again
- Result: energy dip, renewed cravings, often with guilt
- Long-term: a vicious cycle of stress = eating = fatigue = more stress
Emotional vs physical hunger
A key point in terms of emotional eating is understanding the difference between genuine hunger and emotional hunger. How to recognise the difference:
Physical hunger
- Develops gradually
- Stomach growling or low energy
- Can be satisfied with various foods
- Leads to fullness
Emotional hunger
- Appears suddenly
- Often urgent, usually without physical cues
- Focused on certain "comfort foods" (sweet, fatty, salty)
- Often leads to overeating or guilt
Loss of appetite: Not everyone eats under stress
Not everyone reacts the same way. Some people lose their appetite entirely under intense stress. The body enters survival mode: Digestion slows, and stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol suppress hunger. Signals like hunger and satiety are less perceptible in these moments. They may often feel their appetite has disappeared completely.
Nutrients that help under stress and why
Chronic stress significantly increases the need for certain nutrients, especially those that support the nervous system and energy metabolism: vitamins, minerals, trace elements, quality fats, proteins and antioxidants. Taking good care of your body creates a stable foundation – not only for strong nerves, but also for greater inner peace and resilience.
Nutrients with calming and stabilising effects
Magnesium
Relaxes muscles and nerves, calming the central nervous system. Found in oats, whole grains, lentils, beans, pumpkin seeds, green leafy vegetables (like spinach and broccoli), almonds, cashews, bananas, seeds
B vitamins (esp. B1, B6, B12)
Support nerve conduction, boost energy and focus. Found in whole grains, millet, buckwheat, pulses, broccoli, avocado, eggs
Vitamins C & E
Protect cells from free radicals caused by stress, pollution or UV rays.
- Vitamin C: berries, Brussels sprouts, peppers, papaya, kiwi, broccoli, citrus fruits
- Vitamin E: wheat germ oil, rapeseed oil, olive oil, avocado, almonds
Omega-3 fatty acids
Are anti-inflammatory, support brain function and emotional stability. Found in flaxseed, walnuts, rapeseed oil, chia seeds, salmon, fatty fish
Antioxidants (e.g. zinc, selenium, secondary plant substances)
Help the body cope with chronic stress effects.
- Zinc: sunflower seeds, Emmental cheese, lentils, oats, tofu, eggs
- Selenium: Brazil nuts, sesame, peanuts, eggs, rice
- Secondary plant substances with antioxidant properties: berries, green tea, nuts, fruit, vegetables
More tips
- Stay hydrated: Drink plenty of water or calming herbal teas (lemon balm, chamomile, lavender)
- Eat slowly digestible carbohydrates: Foods that stabilise blood sugar include oats, quinoa, pulses, whole grains
- Plan regular meals: This will prevent strong blood sugar swings and reduce cravings during stress
Recipe to try at home: nerve-boosting tofu balls
Some foods and combinations provide several of these beneficial nutrients at once and can naturally support inner peace – such as these tofu balls. They gently help the body regain balance.
Less stress with mindfulness and small habits
When eating becomes an automatic reaction to stress, mindfulness can be a valuable counterbalance, not only at mealtimes but throughout the day. It helps you notice and shape the space between trigger (for example stress, frustration or boredom) and reaction (for example uncontrolled eating).
Mini habits instead of major changes
When life already feels full, big changes can be overwhelming. It's reassuring to know that small, practical habits can make a real difference. They help you recognise emotional triggers early, understand your body better and build new, healthy routines.
Examples of mini habits
- Prepare a healthy snack instead of grabbing something on impulse.
- Take two conscious breaths before eating or go for a short walk.
- Build in a small break each day without your phone, newspaper or conversation.
- Choose a calming tea instead of a third coffee.
- Establish favourite alternatives to handle stress: music, movement, writing, fresh air, painting.
These habits act like small anchors in daily life. They strengthen your connection to your body and reduce the urge to cope with emotions through food.
Spot emotional eating with this mini checklist
Use these 4 prompts for self-observation to recognise emotional triggers more clearly.
1) Am I truly hungry?
- Do I suddenly have strong cravings without physical hunger?
- Do I want something very specific (for example chocolate or crisps)?
- Is my stomach rumbling or am I eating just because I fancy something?
2) Am I emotionally triggered?
- Am I eating due to stress, frustration, boredom or loneliness?
- Am I looking for comfort, reward or distraction through food?
- Am I eating even though I don't need energy right now?
3) Am I mindful while eating?
- Am I eating quickly, on the side or without awareness?
- Do I feel as if I'm losing control while eating?
- Do I struggle to stop even when I'm full?
4) How do I feel after eating?
- Do I feel relieved – but only briefly?
- Do I feel guilty or dissatisfied with myself?
- Do I still sense the uncomfortable feelings, perhaps even stronger than before?
Smart shopping: a base for balanced meals during stressful times
In challenging phases, it helps to keep a small selection of calming and nutrient-rich foods on hand. Use this list like a toolkit and choose what suits your routine and preferences. These foods support the nervous system, stabilise blood sugar and help maintain emotional balance – without much effort required.
Nerve-strengthening proteins
Provide tryptophan and support recovery.
- Lentils, chickpeas, black beans
- Natural yoghurt or plant-based yoghurt
- Eggs
- Tofu, tempeh
- Optional: meat or fish depending on your diet
Green vegetables and antioxidants
Are anti-inflammatory and protect cells.
- Broccoli
- Spinach (fresh or deep-frozen)
- Kale
- Courgettes
- Peppers
- Berries (fresh or frozen)
Healthy fats and magnesium sources
Support brain function and promote relaxation.
- Almonds, cashews, walnuts
- Flaxseed, chia seeds
- Nut butters (for example almond or peanut butter)
- Virgin rapeseed oil, olive oil, flaxseed oil
Green vegetables and antioxidants
Are anti-inflammatory and protect cells.
- Broccoli
- Spinach (fresh or deep-frozen)
- Kale
- Courgettes
- Peppers
- Berries (fresh or frozen)
Eating better with meal prepping
Many of these foods can be prepared in advance or used in simple meal prep dishes. In stressful phases, people often grab whatever is quickest – which usually means less healthy options. Meal prepping can make a valuable difference here.